I didn't care enough about equality, until now. Bagaimana kita dapat membanggakan diri apabila diri sendiri belum bisa memanusiakan manusia lainnya secara layak dalam bentuk kesetaraan? Well, equality seems like an oppresion for those who already accustomed in privilige.
Take care the shit of yourself, first. Always first. Egois? Tidak. Bagaimana cangkir kosong dapat memberi isi ke cangkir lainnya apabila tidak mengisi dirinya sendiri terlebih dahulu?
Do not waste your time with people that don't make you grow into someone better. Learn that in a hard way.
Have courage, embrace something new. Do not fall into the trap of what you called your comfort zone.
Hear and care of others opinion, but let it slide away if it makes you think you're not good enough and it determines your worth.
It's okay to have so many contradictions within yourself. Passively independent, distantly affectionate, serenely passionate, peaceful rebels.... and so much more.
You can do anything, but not everything. At the same time. Learn how to stop, learn how to say no.
God's plan is always the best one. What is to come will be better for you than what has gone by. With every difficulty, there is a relief.
A woman does not have to be modest in order to be respected. Respect the existence or expect the resistance.
It is indeed not your job to be everything to everyone. Or to be everything for one particular person.
See the rejection a redirection. Well, a rejection is better than a regret.
Do not settle for your worst version of yourself. Be thirsty, be hungry to achieve the best version of yourself.
Boyfriend can wait, your future can't. Do not let others be in charge of your decision regarding your future.
Being independent is not toxic. After all the only one you could trust and you could count on is one and only, yourself.
Be kind, smile a lot. It's never hurt to be humble. Manners matter the most.
Make connections, but do not wait for the approval of others of what you can do. You could do so much thing and achieve many many accomplishments.
Grow through what you go through. Experience is the best teacher, indeed.
Save your money. Make your own money. Adulthood may be tough, but you got yourself.
Make time. For the family, friends, and others that worth your time.
Dream big. But also work hard. Hard work never betrays the outcome. Do not forget to smile! And enjoy the ride.
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